537 :[my2cent] : meja petak2..meja bulat..:P

entry sambungan custom puzzle edisi ammar zakwan nurin postpone ke next entry... ade bbrp isu nurin nk ber2 sen.. just now..demi mengubat hati yg da beku.. nurin keluar p saloon n jln pusing2 farmasi carik je la apebende yg berkenaan..

while at saloon td ade sekumpulan kakak2 4 orang..then mau takmo..terdengar sekali perbincangan dorang.. soh seh soh seh pasal kawan la mebi.. (ade yg rancak ade yg just nyampuk sikit2 je tp byk berdiam kt tepi ..)

1 : isu jodoh lambat si melah (*bukan nama sebenar)...memilih sgt, tak tengok diri sendiri sebelum memilih...bla blaa... ...camne nak kawin...

2. si tipah (*bukan nama sebenar) .. selfish..pikir diri sendiri je..tak amik tau hal org..gedik nyampahnye i....! ..blaablaa..

3. malik tu kan kaki kipas ..over acting aa ..macamm bagos..!

sebenarnye nurin pun tau isu ni da kategori basi.. kat mana2 pun bole jumpe.. so yg otak nurin highlightkan dlm perbincangan dorang tuh bukan lg berkaitan isu2 tu.. tp... ''WHY...AND HOW people love to displaying an excessively critical point of view.. "  

 nurin sebenarnye kesian pada pihak2 yang terpaksa menyetujui or join jadi geng meja bulat semata-mata nak diterima dalam satu kelompok.. err maksud nurin.. sometimes for being different.. or ade pendapat yg berbeza mengenai sesuatu perkara menyebabkan seseorang tu selalu dipinggirkan..so disebabkan mau di terima dlm satu kelompok.. dia terpaksa ikut majoriti..

always happen to me.. when sometimes nurin keliru samada nak keluarkan pendapat dari  view nurin or terus berdiam or terpaksa cakap.."a'ah betul tu...blaa..soknah soknah sok sek sok sek.." .... already buat sume kaedah ..and hasilnye..:

1. whenever me alone has different point of view :: slowly akan rasa di pinggirkan sebab tak sependapat..

2. berdiam diri..setuju tidak ... bangkang pun tidak..:: telan je la sorang2..

3. join the group..ikut majority...simpan sendiri pendapat n not being myself :: easily fit in to the group...

so nurin paham kenapa kadang2 ramai suke saling menyokong and join meja bulat.. rasa diterima and seronok berkawan..ketawa sama2.. kutuk sama2.. but again...persoalan dlm kepala otak nurin :

1) .is it fun for not being urself?

Be different by being true to urself . Have a stand . Have a principles in life. Don't be a follower. People might hate u, but u have selfworth - copied dari wardina saffiyah

2). if we keep being a follower ikut majoriti manjang...adakah kawan2 yg kite dok seronok bergaul tu ialah sebenar2 kawan???  if mereka betul2 kawan..why must they ignore u when u different? why must they being so judgmental on u? 

pikir-pikirkan....

being close tak semestinye sama pendapat.. so for me.. as i learn thru my years .... i prefer to be myself..  i don't care anymore if people hate or love me for what i believe..  so i always choose to speak it out or stay silence instead of wasting my time arguing , bergantung pada keadaan.... motto saya : let those  are worth  stay in ur life..n those who don't elapsed along with time... 

and ya...! im such a boring person.. sbb nurin selalu takde topik panas nak cakap.. nurin selalunye minat pada general knowledge or isu semasa je...the only source of gossip yg nurin tau selalunye  samada ade orang lain yg tak payah disuruh2 dok bagitau..ataupun dari beautifulnara or ohbulan je..huhu..tu pun kalo da tahap boring nk mampus tatau nk baca ape lg.. so i understand if sometimes people hardly to get along with me..but i always thankful to those yg tak kisah ngn ke-kekok-an saya n faham saya mmg tak berminat dgn isu2 remeh..  really thankful for ur understanding..

♥'s~ nurin